I have a 364 day calendar, and as I was looking at all the months of crossed out dates, I realized I can pinpoint certain times in my life which set about a cascade of events.
Calling up one friend, which led to a party, which led to a date, which is leading to a relationship.
Going to a social gathering, which led to borrowing a book, which led to having a topic to discuss with a new acquaintance at a party a month later, which led to a new friend.
Agreeing to record game footage on a lark with a friend, led to a youtube channel and a weekly activity.
Showing up to your own life is important.